Birds of a Feather...

Yup, thats right... birds of a feather flock together. i couldnt agree more. the people you hang out with are usually the people you have the most in common with which is why you became friends in the first place. friendships ARE relationships without the romance. so if you want a good friend, take a second to stand back and recognize what your "friends" are all about. dont be so naive that you think because youre always there everyone else will be too. that isnt how the world operates, trust me! if that was the case, the few good people that probably exist in your life would never get hurt.

i learned a lot today about numerology and how numbers work with people. i find that stuff interesting enough to believe it. youre either compatible with a person or youre not. in life you are destined to be somethin you have no control over, either way you look at it... thats what you were SUPPOSED to be. the people you meet, no matter how big or small of a role they play in your life, were meant to cross your path. you learn from these people, you love these people, or you resent these people. all in all, you get an idea of who you are and why you turned out that way with the people you meet. life's lessons arent always obvious, but the purpose is in your face. you just have to be willing to recognize its reasoning.

when you find it hard to be friends with a person, they probably arent supposed to be categorized as a "friend". associates are cool, but not everyone you meet and know on a first & last name basis is your FRIEND. a friend is someone who is there for you no matter the situation, you dont have to call on them they usually know when youre in need, and they dont judge you. if judgment comes into play, then that might be a sign he/she isnt the person you need to be calling a friend. most importantly, being honest doesnt come hard for true friends. you can go back and forth as much as you like and say that you always rekindle your friendship even when its at its worst but honestly... would a FRIEND put you through that more than once? or let alone at all? nah, i dont think so.

if you have to question a persons motive in your life, the real question is why should you still be holding on? POW!